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Shrinkhla Sahai
Shrinkhla Sahai
Psychotherapist | Mental Health Educator
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The Grief After Knowing: What Late-Identified Autistic Adults Aren’t Told About Healing
Grief, doubt, anger, tenderness —
the real aftermath of finding out who you’ve always been.
shrinkhla sahai
Apr 274 min read


Adoption Is Not a Blank Slate: Why We Need Trauma-Informed Counselling and Parenting
Why adoption needs more than love — it needs trauma-informed care.
shrinkhla sahai
Apr 233 min read


The Girl Who Carried Loneliness
Surrounded, yet unknown — that’s the island of quiet loneliness.
shrinkhla sahai
Apr 204 min read


When Every Decision Feels Dangerous: How Trauma Shapes Our Choices
If you find yourself paralyzed by everyday decisions,
it’s not just overthinking—it is trauma's hidden cost on your choices.
shrinkhla sahai
Apr 164 min read


When the Inner Critic Gets too Loud
Self-attack isn’t discipline. It’s a wound we keep mistaking for motivation.
shrinkhla sahai
Apr 123 min read


On Vulnerability: A Soft Ache, A Quiet Courage
It's easy to say - 'Be vulnerable'. But opening up doesn't always land in soft arms - it can be met with blank stares and awkward silence.
shrinkhla sahai
Apr 103 min read


“I don’t want to die. I just don’t know how to keep living like this.”
If you've ever felt the weight of staying alive—this is for you.
shrinkhla sahai
Apr 103 min read


From 'What’s Wrong with Me?' to 'This is Who I Am': The Adult Autism Journey to Self-Acceptance
Most late-diagnosed or self-identified autistic adults grow up thinking they are failing at being a person...
shrinkhla sahai
Apr 22 min read


Understanding Bipolar: More Than a Diagnosis
Bipolar Disorder is neither a “superpower” nor just a struggle. It’s a condition that requires care, community, and consistency.
shrinkhla sahai
Mar 295 min read


Why does one become a therapist?
To be a therapist is to be deeply present - to the pain, and to the possibilities.
shrinkhla sahai
Mar 292 min read
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